How To Get A Girlfriend In Singapore Easily By Being Unique!

If you are a guy in Singapore, and want to know how you can easily get a girlfriend in Singapore, the answer is to be different. The most important thing to help you stand out more than simply trying to be attractive, is to be different. An average girl in Singapore gets flirted with multiple times a week, and a hot one many times a day! The most important thing for you to get a hot girlfriend easily in Singapore is to make sure she even remembers you!

Here are some tips to help you be more unique, stand out so that you actually stand a chance at getting a hot Singaporean girlfriend.

Suggest actually fun dates

First of all, you should definitely suggest fun dates. Most people once they know a girl, they will attempt to suggest a movie and/or a dinner date. While that is a safe idea, remember – safe ideas do not get you a hot girlfriend. They have lots of other guys pitching her date ideas all the time. What makes you think that she will not just lump you into the ‘just another guy’ category? Instead, you could even suggest stuff like fun sports dates to her! Be unique in your date suggestions to her. Do not appear to come up with ideas that every other typical Singaporean guy will.

Dress presentably

Second of all, a hot girl will have tons of well dressed guys, poorly dressed guys, and all sorts of guys approaching her all the time. This means that for you to even stand a chance, you need to at least dress presentably. The reason for this is because a truly hot Singaporean girl will have so many choices, her main consideration is to reject guys more than anything else. Girls compartmentalize guys into the ‘potential boyfriend’ and ‘friend zone’ categories. You do not need to be number one on her mind now, you just need to be lumped into the ‘potential boyfriend’ category in her mind!

Become the dream guy, and you will find your dream girlfriend in Singapore

Third of all, while this advice may sound ridiculous, it is important for you to treat her like how the smooth guys in the movies treat her. You may think stuff like, “But why would I want to do that? She should like me however I treat her!” My immediate question to you will be, “Then why do you expect a hot girl to be instantly attracted to you like those in movies do to the main lead?” If you want the dream girl to fall in love with you, your most important realization should be that you should also constantly work towards being the dream guy! In fact, the easiest way to get the ‘perfect’ girlfriend is to make sure that you are constantly working towards being the ‘perfect’ boyfriend! Simple but works!

How To Find A Sugar Baby Or A Singaporean Escort?

Here are some tips for you to help you find a sugar baby or perhaps a Singaporean escort in Singapore.

If you are not sure whether you should look for a sugar baby or escort, then you should read this other post first. Otherwise continue reading.

First of all, they are found online only. While you could randomly walk up to a girl and ask if she is willing to be your sugar baby, we recommend you not do that in Singapore as the culture here in Singapore is much more conservative, and such a question will likely get you into unnecessary trouble. There are sugar dating websites which you should use instead. However, escorts in Singapore are found exclusively online on the Internet only.

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Where are these websites where you can find them?

You can look for sugar babies on sugar dating arrangement sites like Seeking, TheSugarBook and more. Seeking is definitely by far the largest sugar dating site in Singapore in terms of active users, so you can definitely use them. It is also far cheaper than The Sugar Book to use.

If you want to look for escorts, you can simply do a quick Google search for ‘Singapore escort’ and you will be able to quickly pull up lots of results of classified ads, directories as well as agency sites. Here are some word of cautions:

  • If you want to use classified ad sites, look only for Singaporeans working and putting their details on there. The reason for this is because foreigners are not allowed to work in Singapore, and the locals and the local government takes a very harsh view of illegal aliens.
  • If you want to use escort agencies, make sure that they have a business registration number. This is usually a 9 to 10 digit number, which most legitimate escort agencies will have listed on their own websites. If they do not list such a number, RUN FROM THEM.

What do you do after you have found these websites?

For sugar dating websites:

  • You are required to put basic details of yourself on the website.
  • You will be liaising with these girls individually, and then chat them up.
  • It works exactly like applications like Tinder, just that usually on these websites, the girls are way more responsive because they want the money.

For escort agencies:

  • You simply contact the agent for a booking. Very often, they may require some basic details from you to process your booking if you are a first timer.
  • Most of them list photographs and details on their own website already, so you are recommended to look through the price and photo list first before contacting, so that you can save your own time when booking, and you can meet the girl quicker.
  • They will then check the availability for you for the social escort, and then send the girl to your location once the other things are ironed out.

Why Do Men Look For Singapore Social Escorts?

Lots of men in Singapore look for social escorts from places like SG VIP. Why is that so? While the reason that every single man look for a Singapore escort will vary, there are some common reasons and here in this article we will attempt to explain it.

Just got single and do not want to get into a long term relationship anytime yet so they look for escorts

First of all, some of these men are freshly single, because of a break up, never got attached or got divorced. As a result, most of these men do not want to find another long term girlfriend anytime soon. However, they may still crave for a little companionship by a beautiful woman from time to time. As a result, some of these men look for Singaporean escorts.

Foreign businessmen in Singapore who want a professional companion – i.e. social escorts

Secondly, they are in Singapore for business purposes, and during their free time, want to look for a companion. As many of these businessmen travel by themselves, it can be lonely if they travel from country to country with only meetings with acquaintances. As a result, they look for professional companions – social escorts to keep them company and keep them happy and sane. This is in fact one of the biggest reasons why men look for escorts – as their companion.

Never want relationship commitment and so only does no strings attached relationships

There are some men who do not want commitment, whether by choice or by their work lifestyle. As a result, they turn to no strings attached options such as social escorts. Some of them also opt for sugar babies. Regardless, these are types of relationships and companionship on demand which are suitable for these men who are seeking a no strings attached relationship.

Some men are just socially awkward and do not do well with the ladies otherwise

Some men are just not great at dealing with the ladies. Sometimes it is the way they behave, sometimes it is the way they look. They often struggle with the girls, and so for an easier way out, they look for escorts! If they tried going to the clubs to get girls, they probably will fail. Why take that risk of time and money only to get disappointed? They simply look for a beautiful social escort and the job is done!

Some of these clients are a little older, and find it very difficult to date ‘normally’

Most clients who look for escorts in Singapore are middle aged. This is often the result of them working very hard and for very long hours at their careers when they are in their 20s and until mid 30s. As a result, they are only able to date seriously now. However, they are at an awkward age where their friends are attached and yet they are seen as a little ‘too old’ when trying to pick up girls both offline and online. In fact, many Singaporean girls will not even bother replying to these men in their late 30s and 40s simply because they think these men are already attached or married when many are not! As a result, these men look for social escorts in Singapore.

Dating Woes By Singles In Singapore

According to a recent government study as reported by The Straits Times, while many singles in Singapore claim they want to get hitched and get married, many of them face dating problems. Here are some of them.

60% of Singaporean singles are not dating with marriage in mind

Many Singaporeans are still dating. However, more than half of these people are apparently dating casually, and not with the intention of marriage eventually! This is actually a common problem among people living in urban cities such as Singapore. In fact, that is one of the biggest problems that women in Singapore face. Many men are just dating for fun, or at least, with no intention of marriage.

To put this into perspective, just imagine that you can walk along Orchard Road and look at ten different couples. You can randomly point at a couple and guess that they will not get married, and you will probably be right most of the times.

Many Singaporean singles are apparently just unable to find a partner

While many singles in Singapore actually put in effort to look for a partner, they are just unable to. There can be various reasons for this.

First of all, it could be simply that their expectations are too high. While having high expectations is reasonable, one has to be seen as of exceptional quality as well in the eyes of the opposite gender for it to work out easily. Unfortunately, not everyone is realistic with their expectations, when it comes to matching with their own qualities.

Shrinking social circles as people get older

As a schooling kid or adult in Singapore, you probably knew hundreds of people, and knew at least 20 to 50 people on a relatively close level. However, as you become a working adult, chances are, your colleagues are the only ones you talk to on a daily or weekly basis, and you rarely meet other people anymore. It gets quite difficult to have the time, mental effort and energy to arrange for meet ups with people outside of your work circle. Add on to the fact that there will be fewer singles in your circle as you grow older, it will get harder and harder to get married or even attached!